Advance Directives
Here is a link to a helpful document--a consumer's tool kit for health care advance planning put out by the commission on law and aging: http://www.abanet.org/aging/toolkit/
A lot of pages to download but well worth it.
Here is a link to a document from the CT Dept of Social Services that will guide you in how to fill one out: http://www.ct.gov/agingservices/lib/agingservices/pdf/advancedirectivesenglish.pdf